This Mama's Madness

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Nova playing with play doh on her first day at country kids.

Nova started a once a week preschool program on September 15th this year. She loves it!

Old Madness Homeschooling Madness Other Madness

Restin' my weary feet

Photo of my ratty old shoes

then Movin' on, Movin' On...




Teenagers

I'm having E come again tomorrow to play with the girls while I try to get things done. I have mixed feelings about this. THe girls had a great time with her last week. Nova talked about E all evening, and I know they'll enjoy playing with her. On the other hand, I feel like I MUST have the house reasonably presentable to have her here, which I kind of resent. I could just hire a housekeeper. But I don't really WANT to do that. I want to get some routines down so that I don't NEED a housekeeper.

Another teen in my life has some big, amazing news. My sister's boyfriend proposed to her! It looks like she's really going to be an adult soon. How freaky is that?!

October 17, 2004, 2004




Feeling a bit sad and weary.

I met a nice teenager, her mother, and brother today. I'm probably going to hire E to come and help me out with the kids once a week so I can get some things done around the house. Which is just fine and dandy, I could really use some regular help. But it, unfortunately, really did highlight just how bad my home is. I feel discouraged because my home is such a mess, and I am embarassed that anyone other than my immediate family has seen it. It's just discouraging when I think about what I managed to get done before their visit, and how much was left that hasn't been done.

October 5, 2004, 2004




The big nasty thing is gone!

We dismantled and discarded our couch last night. I feel like a great weight has been lifted.

We bought this couch (used) back when we lived in San Mateo, about 4 years ago. It was HUGE. I could very very easily stretch out full length on it, as could most people.

It was also very heavy. It was exhausting to move. And it sagged uncomfortably in spots.

The worst things about it though, was that it took up so much room, and it just doesn't get USED. It collected dust and clutter like a magnet.

So last night, after complaining about the space Nick's bike takes up in our living room, he suggested we get rid of the couch. At first, I said, "I'm not ready to do that." I had so much clutter on it that needed to be gone through. It didn't take me long to say, ya know what, you're right, lets just do it.

So I piled all the clutter on the couch onto the floor and proceeded to cut the dusty, dirty upholstry off our couch. With glee, Jade helped me rip the padding off and stuff it in garbage bags.

Nick pryed the wood beams apart with a hammer and prybar, and lots of sweat and brut force. I think we all had fun. :-) About a dozen trips to the dumpster later, the couch was gone from my life forever.

So far, I am thrilled. I might have a few pangs for destroying the couch that I sat up late nursing Nova on in her newborn days, and that we took a family photo of my family visiting the week after her birth. But really, they are nothing to the pleasure I get from know that couch is OUTTA HERE!

The plan, for now, is to get a bunch of big, comfy cushions and a blanket to toss on the floor to lounge on. When we get around to it, I'm hopeful we can get a nice, hypoallergenic futon. Or at least a hypoallergenic cover to put under the real, washable cover. Because I'll tell you what, that couch was SO DISGUSTING. Seriously, seriously nasty. I thought carpet was bad, but at least carpet is relatively easy to steam clean.

October 4, 2004, 2004



Mama's Wish List

Yeah, I know, I know.
I am SUCH a beggar.